When someone starts to go out of their way to make your life easier (especially when your life is pretty complicated and exhausting) it does, in result, make your life much easier. But in exchange, it adds difficulty to theirs.
And I know, those who give should not expect in return.
And I know, those who go out of their way to help someone are doing it out of their own will.
But it must, at some point, become damaging to the person and/or the relationship as a whole.
And I know, that the taker can give back in return in other ways, but what if it doesn’t compare?
What if it isn’t enough?
What is it isn’t as often?
Is this what leads us to expectations and standards? And when they stops expending, is this what leads us to feel unloved and conclusively lead to downfall?